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For all who struggle with loss, sometimes it feels like there’s no letting up. But time is a master at healing. And if you allow for healing to take root in your life it will. For some of you it may mean engaging in some form of therapy or counseling, for others, it may be reading inspirational or self help books. The important thing is to never give up on yourself and on life!



It is staggering the number of people who I have read for who have lost a loved one over the past 22 years. The insight  I have gained as a medium is secondary to the understanding I have gained about grief and loss. If there is anything that I have learned it’s that everyone grieves differently. And those who are placed in a a position to help such individuals, be it family or friends, must understand this truth. Well intended people may think that they know best when attempting to help a person who has recently lost a loved one. Well intentioned but misguided friends may want to show them a good time or even suggest support groups to help alleviate the grief. But in all honesty, if the individual is not ready to receive the help, it will only further alienate the individual. Never force the person to do something they are not emotionally ready for, no matter how strongly you believe it will help them.

Allow people to grieve in the manner they see fit. Give them their space. Of course if you suspect that the individual is severely depressed or suicidal, then it is best to involve close and trusted family members to help support him or her by suggesting they receive professional help. The passing of time offers it’s own healing. For those who have suffered the loss of a significant person in their lives, time will never fill the void, but it will allow for it to soften the emotional impact of the loss. The best that you can do is support them in whatever manner they will accept. Give them a chance to heal at their own pace and in their own time frame with the love, care and concern of family and friends.

An Amazing Night of Spirit Messages!



I want to thank Arnie Roeland & the Northern/Central Jersey Widows & Widowers support group for inviting me to read for them. It was an extraordinary night with many amazing & ACCURATE spirit messages! One of the pics is of participant Diane showing a key chain that her spirit husband told me her daughter bought in his memory while she was in Ireland on a rainy day (hard to believe it was the ONLY rainy day she encountered on vacation!) But It was ALL TRUE! After reading for 20 people I needed a drink! God bless you all on your life’s journey & I pray that last night was an reminder that your spirit loved ones are closer than you once thought <3