As a medium I see a lot of clients who carry guilt over not saying or doing the “right” things before their loved one passed away. Hindsight is 20/20 as they say. However in reading after reading spirit relatives never hold grudges & are always forgiving. Heaven is a place where love encompasses everything & it is impossible to hold on to any ounce of resentment or anger. So if you are consumed with guilt & grief over over past regrets there is only one thing left to do and that is to forgive yourself.